Divorce involving significant wealth presents complexities far beyond emotional separation. When businesses, multiple properties, trusts, and global investments are at stake, each decision carries major financial and personal implications. High-net-worth divorce mediation provides a structured and private forum for resolution—one that values discretion, strategic planning, and collaboration over courtroom battles.

Across the country, an increasing number of individuals are choosing to represent themselves in divorce proceedings—a concept known as pro se representation. This movement reflects a growing desire for autonomy, cost-efficiency, and transparency in what has traditionally been a lawyer-dominated system.

Divorce mediation is often viewed as a faster, more affordable, and less adversarial alternative to litigation. However, many individuals enter mediation unprepared—financially and strategically—leading to confusion, frustration, and missed opportunities for equitable settlements. In a recent episode of MediatorPodcast.com, Melissa Gragg, a financial mediator and valuation expert, spoke with Rosalia Labate, a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) based in New York. Together, they explored how financial readiness and expert guidance can transform the mediation process from chaotic uncertainty into informed decision-making.

Divorce later in life, often referred to as “gray divorce,” presents unique financial challenges. One of the most significant assets in these cases is the family home, which may hold substantial equity but provide little liquidity. In a recent episode of MediatorPodcast.com, host Melissa Gragg, a financial mediator and valuation expert, spoke with Laura Phillips, a reverse mortgage specialist with over 25 years of experience in real estate lending. Together, they explored how reverse mortgages can serve as a valuable tool for mediators, attorneys, and financial professionals working with clients navigating separation, retirement, and asset preservation.